Now that I think about it.. I kind of understand Savannah in Dear John. How hard it is to be away from the person you long for. Waiting on letter after letter. The rare unexpected, precious calls you get every now and then.. Having to live everyday like everything is normal without them being with you at all times. Trying not to worry whether they'd come home alive and the simple fact of just.. waiting. It was hard for her. I still don't understand why she left him for that wheelchair guy, but I understand the struggle and pain she went through. Sad fact but I may have to live through that too.